Showing posts with label I Served Dead Fish in a Mall. Show all posts
Showing posts with label I Served Dead Fish in a Mall. Show all posts

Monday, October 10, 2022

Coincidence?

On Saturday night, my girlfriend gave me an herbal medication to help me sleep.

Since then, I've had lucid dreams. 

My most recent? Having dinner with the owner of Dead Fish in a Mall, where I used to work

My dream ended with him paying for the check.

Madness. 

Should I take another dose?


Sunday, September 12, 2021

New Work


"My Own 'Never Forget:' How 9/11 ended my time in the food service industry," an essay on Medium.

 

Sunday, July 25, 2021

Jackie Mason (1928-2021)

 

Jackie Mason first came into my life via HBO and his comedy special they broadcast. He was a little too over my head and slower than the Robin Williams/Sam Kinison high octane kind of comedy I first experienced (and being too young for that too, but c'est la vie).

Monday, January 04, 2021

Christmastime in the City

 

Prudential Center, Christmas Eve 2020

My first year waiting tables at Dead Fish in a Mall was the first time I worked night shift on Christmas Eve. I was at the bottom of the hierarchy. Maybe even lower! The owner had us work a full normal day serving the few people that came out of the hotel/mall chain.

Monday, February 19, 2018

Thankful

I've been mostly sitting this afternoon. It's what I needed to do, given how my feet have been giving me trouble for the last few weeks.

I can sit down because I don't have to work today.

A little over a decade ago, that wouldn't have been the case, holiday or now.

If I hadn't made fortunate changes (with the help of others in my life at the time), I would still be at the whims of the people who rule the lowest rungs of the service sector, working a double shift until I was on my knees, crying to no one who would care.

So thankful.



Friday, October 13, 2017

Annoying Thought of the Day

Is it me or is Legal Sea Foods in competition with Bernie and Phyl's to see who can put out the lamest ad ever?






Who's winning? All I have to say is that Jack Handey called, Legal's. He wants his everything back.

Thursday, August 06, 2015

Seen but Not ****ing Believed

Keep in mind that the ad below comes from a company whose then-flagship restaurant took down Christmas decorations so they wouldn't offend people of other religions. I don't have anything against that decision (though they could stop forcing waitstaff to work on the actual Christmas holidays), but juxtaposed with what I saw this morning...wow, what a difference a decade or two makes.
 
Is this a sign I should do more Jesus Poems?
Legal Seafoods: Bigger than Jesus.

Monday, June 29, 2015

Annoying Thoughts: The More Things Change, The More You Never Were


Above is a photo of a former location of a famous local seafood chain in the Prudential Center. It was one of many for a couple of decades, but it's gone now, lost to "BIG CHANGES" due to the shopping center's construction. It looks like it will set up a new location elsewhere in the shopping center, but not for a year.

I left that hell hole (good food, bad work environment) years before they improved their staff dress code and renovated the space. I would always stop in every Christmas Eve to pick up a gallon or two of chowder for my family and say hi to one of the few people I cared about who still worked there years later. It was always great to see her and catch up. We always made plans to hang out that never materialized. That's what happens when one person has a 9 to 5 job and the other works most nights.

She herself put decades into working for that restaurant, which was regarded as the flagship (at least that's what was said quietly to those of us who worked there, preferring to refer to one of the newer, non-mall locations as the flagship). This winter, before the restaurant closed its doors, my friend chose to retire, not caring to scrounge for money and wait for them to place her in another restaurant, which is what happens when their restaurants go under or close for renovations, planned or unplanned.

For weeks after 9/11, I made next to no money there as a waiter (hard to lure your customers back then when residing in a mall joined to a large building is part of your decor). It wasn't until after I left and got a 9 to 5 gig that I found out that waitstaff could collect unemployment to compensate financial issues like this. No one in management, who knew we were going broke, said a thing or gave us any advice. That we were disposable was never in question.

When I worked there, I used to hear a story about two waitresses who were with the company almost from the beginning. At one point the owner(s?) sent them on a boat cruise. My friend didn't work as long as them, but it's safe to say she was in the trenches longer than 90% of their entire work force at least. I doubt they even bought her a going away present.

Getting back to the top photo, what makes me a little sad is that if my friend ever comes back to visit, she won't be able to visit the old place to have a bite or just say hi. As much as I hated working at that restaurant towards the end, I still went back to buy chowder or even have dinner with my girlfriend on a special night. It wasn't because I got comped meals or any other kind of discount. Believe me, I did not.

Maybe it was even nice to think that I was some infinitesimal small part in a place's history. It was a substantial chapter in my early life even if I don't like remembering it much. But today even successful modern businesses come and go so frequently, almost wiping away memories of everyone's hard work.

There were a lot of people who were struggling for work after this chain store closed. A couple worked there for almost two decades as barbacks and bussers. Hopefully by now, the majority are all set (you don't keep a job that long by being bad at it). Still, I would hate it if any of them walked by what I photographed, looked and wondered, even for a second, if it was all for nothing.